Relationship Repair Kit
Small daily moves for a relationship you want to keep.
Designed by Robain de JongRelationship Repair Kit is a 21-day coaching program delivered entirely on WhatsApp — one message a day, at the time you choose. Twenty-one days of small, concrete moves for someone who wants to repair a relationship they intend to keep. Week 1 stops the bleeding: listening, noticing, dropping defensiveness. Week 2 is active repair: apologies that land, turning complaints into requests, laughing again. Week 3 rebuilds: rituals, attention, saying the things both people assume are already known. Every day is one small action doable this evening. The voice is a steady friend, never a therapist and never clinical. It never diagnoses either partner, never speculates about the other person's motives, and never assigns blame. If anything the subscriber says suggests abuse, fear for their safety, or a crisis, the message must stop coaching and gently point them toward a professional or a helpline instead.
Day by day
All 21 days, in the order they arrive. Each day is written fresh for you on the day it is sent.
- Day 1Notice one thing
- Day 2Five minutes, no phone
- Day 3Count the interruptions
- Day 4The fight you keep having
- Day 5What it's actually about
- Day 6You're right about that part
- Day 7Week one close
- Day 8Their repair attempts
- Day 9The apology without "but"
- Day 10The complaint is a request
- Day 11Grant it once
- Day 12A question you can't answer
- Day 13When did you last laugh
- Day 14Do that thing
- Day 15One ritual
- Day 16One meal, no phones
- Day 17What they stopped doing
- Day 18One concrete step
- Day 19Say the assumed thing
- Day 20Ask for one thing
- Day 21Twenty-one days
A real day, as it arrives
Questions about this program
- What arrives each day?
- One short WhatsApp message, written for that day of Relationship Repair Kit and sent around 19:30 your local time. It gives you the day's idea and one thing to actually do — no links, no app, no separate inbox.
- What happens if I miss a day?
- Nothing breaks. The program moves forward only when a message is delivered, so you always get all 21 days in order — missing a day simply shifts the rest later.
- Can I reply?
- Yes. Reply to any message with a question and your coach answers in the same thread, up to 10 replies a day. It's a conversation, not a newsletter.
- What happens when the program ends?
- On the last day you get a closing message and can pick your next program straight from WhatsApp. Each program is €29 once per program (or $34 for US numbers) — a one-time payment after your first 3 free days, with a 14-day money-back guarantee. There is no subscription.
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€29 / $34 once per program · Reserve your spot — no card required
Thirty days of small repairs that add up.